1. Maturity





It never was about behavior. Since childhood there has been an ignored controversy confusing, growing and living within every society. Maturity has often been confused with many irrational concepts, which has been carved into by hypocrisy. Hypocrisy is just another piece to a bigger puzzle, that shaped the present concept of maturity. It is not all bad and extreme as I have illustrated it to be. There are many psychological aspects to this concept of maturity too.





Then, how should we predict a person to be mature? How is it that we decide if we are or we have been acting in a matured fashion, as they call it? The answer is something you possess the power to take - decisions. You might have heard people rant about the wrong decisions that they might have taken in their lives. Basically it is the right choices that you make, given the situations you were in when you took that particular decision. It makes you who you are, which might or might not be the best version of yourself. If your decisions have been correct, it makes you mature. When you can judge what is right from the wrongs, and decide to do the best out of the circumstances, you are mature. It is not as easy as it might sound. On the other hand, it is not that hard of a job either.

No one can teach you to be mature, better than life itself. The experiences you go through make you who you are, but maturity will make sure that you are the right one in the crowd of millions.



Unfolding life, one blindfold at a time!



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  1. UnknownApril 6, 2017 at 11:26 AM

    And i thought em mature enough to handle screw ups in my life. Well said brother !

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