1. Maturity
It never was about behavior. Since childhood there has been an ignored controversy confusing, growing and living within every society. Maturity has often been confused with many irrational concepts, which has been carved into by hypocrisy. Hypocrisy is just another piece to a bigger puzzle, that shaped the present concept of maturity. It is not all bad and extreme as I have illustrated it to be. There are many psychological aspects to this concept of maturity too. Then, how should we predict a person to be mature? How is it that we decide if we are or we have been acting in a matured fashion, as they call it? The answer is something you possess the power to take - decisions. You might have heard people rant about the wrong decisions that they might have taken in their lives. Basically it is the right choices that you make, given the situations you were in when you took that particular decision. It makes you who you are, which might or might not be the best version of yours